Been a while.

I generally keep my thoughts and feelings to myself. Today I was frustrated more than normal.
When I ask you "how was your day" I get a 2+ hour play by play of every detail and I listen.  It frustrates me when you talk over me. It frustrates me when I pause and you interject with contradictory options before I have finished fucking speaking. It frustrates me when you talk over Julia the most. Have you noticed that it's the only time I interrupt you? Do you apply your hyper vigilance to your home life?
Your need to "get it all out of your head" takes away time that we can be spending together as a family which is precious and scarce throughout the week especially when you spend anywhere between 20minutes to an hour taking a break each day that you come home from work.
Maybe wait till after Julia goes to bed to vent?
While I'm venting, I recently told you I was feeling a bit depressed about my weight. You say "you're beautiful, I love you........you're most attractive when you're confident. I find your confidence very attractive" when I've just told that my confidence is down this is what i hear "you're beautiful, I love you....You aren't attractive right now but you'll come around"
I ask myself, what good would come of me telling you how I feel when it would turn into an argument?